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Wed, July 13th 2016

STOP COMPARING YOURSELF!

Do you ever  feel that you are so unlucky? Or maybe you are never happy with your life now and everything you got is not enough? You always want to live someone’s life, turn to be somebody else and start comparing yourself to others. Well, I can understand the feeling 100%. But I would readily admit that there's no good ever comes from it.

Sometimes we are comparing the size of our home, paycheck, physical features, or any other things, yes we did it all the time. I don’t know why I keep doing this, but I need to stop punishing myself instantly. Somewhere along the way, there’s must be a time when we compare our clothes, , homes, beauty, or maybe how many likes in instagram that we get with the others (girls especially). Yes, I used to spend my time worrying about what everyone else is doing and never get fulfilled to what I’ve got. Yes, I compare myself to everyone around me. No surprise if I feel envy after that.
I saw some photos and thought that they are better than me and I start to feel like, if only I could be like her, I must be very lucky. I realized that life isn’t graded based on how perfect they look. There is a sky after a sky. All we can do is as to be the best as possible.

 The problem is how. How to stop comparing our lives to others and start to live with it? Maybe I can share a few ways for you. Just consider these :

 1.      Nobody is perfect. You may look that they are so perfect but the truth is you don’t know what they’ve been through. You don’t know them very well so all that you see is their perfection from the outside. But I think everyone has their own flaws, right? Remember, one snapshot in time never tells the whole story. And it makes me realize that I don’t have to be sad or envy just because I thought they were better than me. Remind myself that there are no perfect people, including you and including me.

 2.       Celebrate who you are. It means you have to grateful of what you are. There are so many beautiful things in your life that the others don’t have. You are unique. You were born to live your life, not theirs.  That’s why you don’t have to waste your time by comparing yourself to others or being jealous because everyone is different. Even my life and my sibling’s life isn’t same. So why compare with the others?

I think that is the best way to stop comparing our lives. It is so simple but it’s meaningful. I hope this post will motivate us to be better than ever. Let’s share more love and kindness to everyone. Not only on the outside we find beauty, but also on the inside. Let’s start living our lives!

*Inspired by :
my experience and some inspirational blogs that I read in google.

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