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Books I’ve Read in 2019 So, I might say this year is not akin to last year when I still don’t care much about books. Well, some of the books that I have were given from my friends and I will mention their names in this post as well.   There are about 10 books that I’ve read this year (probably more) and I’m gonna give you a brief review of why I like each of the books. ( I wish one day I could make my own library at home) I liked to read one sentence in every chapter a few times and if the words are precisely describing the emotion I felt, I will highlight it with my color gel pen and that is my favorite part while reading because it makes my books look colorful. I am accustomed to writing down my name behind the cover and sometimes I marked it at the fore-edge of the book. 1.   Monsoon Tiger and Other Stories – Rain Chudori                                     ...

THE THINGS I WOULD LIKE TO TELL MY EXES It didn’t work out and that’s just fine but if we passed each other by, I hope that you still say hi or maybe just a little smile because we were happy once upon a time. Hello, all the guys who used to be my happiness but turned into a stranger out there! How is everything? I hope you all are doing well. It’s been so long that we didn’t see each other. No worries, it’s not a big deal here. I’m still doing fine, great actually. It’s just suddenly I have an idea to write something about my past and you all inspired me. What past is past, they said. Your past is the best teacher you have. Well, I said I agree with that. It taught us something positive or negative about our history and some of the life lessons like let someone go for example, also we can learn how to be thankful for the future we have still. So if they belong to us, they will be back. If they don't, we should know there is must be someone who will love us even bette...

THE SADDEST MEMORY IN MY LIFE The most painful thing that ever happened in my life is when my uncle died. It was worse than just broken-hearted or lost my pets.   Well, I know everyone will die eventually. But, I never know how it feels until it comes to me. I CAN’T EVEN TYPE THIS NOW. It’s still hard for me to remember all of the things that I want to write. So, I took a deep breath and just walked around to calm myself down. Sunday morning, I just wake up like usual, feeling calm but enthusiast as well because of that day after I work, I will be seeing my young cousin who was born six months ago and he’s way   too cute so I can’t help missing him. My mom also wants to see him so she planned to go there in the afternoon. Then, my papa took me to my office and I listened to my favorite songs until we arrived, as usual. On the way to my workplace, I felt neutral. Not happy, not even sad at all. Until I got there, I didn’t feel anything bad too. So, it was ab...

FIVE WAYS TO WIN MY HEART “Life is short. Time is fast. No replay. No rewind. So enjoy every moment as it comes. Don’t ever regret anything” Well, I could say, this is a BIG SECRET I’ve ever written in my own blog. I posted it because it is one of the lists in my writing blog challenge and I think it will be fun if I give it a try.   So, if you guys want to know more about one of a girl like me, you can continue reading it. To my mind, the heart is something that crucial and forceful in the human body because of it can sense beautiful things and sometimes it’s so magical because even though it has been hurting so bad, it still can heal itself. And that’s why I wonder how God can create such an amazing organ. Okay, my major point here is I want to tell you about some things that can steal my heart completely.   Well, I just think and realize that there are five ways you need to know to go to my heart. Here they are : 1.       Som...

This post will contain some adult life that you underage people don’t want to understand . So, this is like the pouring of a cold fish’s heart that wants to get a feel of something in her short life. If you find this interesting, then enjoy reading it. Currently, I’ve been thinking that I was trapped in my own comfort zone for too long. Yes, I guess a year is too long.   I wonder if there is something that might or be willing to offer me some help to experience any feelings again. You know, what? It is funny because honestly I missed feeling extremely gloomy and feel the tears down my cheek. It always makes me feel terrific after that somehow. There is something compelling in it that makes me feel stronger than ever. Well, I do exaggerate a bit about that.   But, the thing is I missed feel something and not numb . They say, “The dead cannot feel”. And so do I, but I still alive. I missed the things that I had in the past, but I do not regret it...

A SIDE OF ME THAT ONLY COME AT MIDNIGHT lovethispic.com Tonight  I missed my fingertips touch a typewriter So I opened my computer Out of the blue I trapped with my old memories in an old folder named flashback for hours I feel as if I've got many friends But feeling like I have no friends at all At the same time And for more than once I was unsure about it Did I miss them too much ? or Did I just miss that kind of moments ? But I am surely know now This is what it feels like to be grow up Humankind always need someone to keep in with For the reason that  They cannot face this world alone

Devoted to : My Future Husband                                                                     hdwallpaperslife.com To my future husband out there. I don’t know where you are now or who you are with   or what you are doing, but if you find this, I want you to know that I write this just to show you, I have been waiting and preparing myself to welcome the one and only man I want to grow old with. I have something to tell you about my dream in the future. I would like to spend the rest of my life with you in any circumstances. I don’t mind if we live in a small apartment, as long as I have you by my side, then I have everything I need.   Well, and maybe a vehicle is needed for taking both of us to our journey.   To my future husband, let me be your diary. I will listen to whateve...

REVIEW “GOODBYE, THINGS”   by FUMIO SASAKI Awal bulan lalu, saya membeli buku baru yaitu “Goodbye, Things” karya Fumio Sasaki asal Jepang. Ini adalah buku yang wajib dibaca bagi siapa pun dan merupakan salah satu buku favorit saya untuk tahun ini . Buku ini saya beli di Gramedia Medan dengan harga cukup murah yaitu Rp. 89.000. untuk luar Pulau Jawa. Dan sangat worth it.   Tujuan dari penulisan buku ini menurut saya adalah bagaimana supaya kita menggunakan barang-barang yang hanya kita perlukan atau butuhkan dan meraih kebahagiaan walaupun hanya mempunyai sedikit barang. Dengan kata lain, kita menjadi lebih bersyukur dengan apa yang sudah kita miliki. Dan di dalam buku ini juga diceritakan saat Fumio Sasaki masih menjadi seorang maximalis dimana dia menyimpan banyak barang di apartemennya dan perlahan-lahan merubah mindset untuk membuang barang-barang yang menurutnya tidak dia butuhkan. Dia juga mengajarkan supaya kita berhenti menjadi orang yang konsumtif...

ALASAN MENONAKTIFKAN INSTAGRAM UNTUK SEMENTARA unsplash.com Menonaktifkan sementara akun instagram, bukanlah kali pertama untuk saya. Setiap orang pasti memiliki alasan tersendiri untuk hal-hal yang dilakukannya. Begitu juga saya. Selama bulan ramadhan kali ini, saya memutuskan untuk tidak menggunakan instagram dan mungkin akan menggunakannya kembali saat Idul Fitri nanti. Ada beberapa alasan yang membuat saya memutuskan untuk tidak menggunakan instagram selama bulan puasa. Dan yang pertama adalah karena saya membaca sebuah artikel di sebuah koran yang berjudul PUASA MEDSOS yang ditulis oleh Gigi Suroso diterbitkan pada Minggu, 5 Mei 2019.   Saya langsung menyatakan setuju dengan beliau karena saya memang ingin menghilangkan ketergantungan terhadap medsos, dan inilah saatnya. Di bulan puasa, lebih baik memperbanyak amalan daripada melakukan hal-hal yang mengurangi   pahala puasa itu sendiri. Nah, alasan yang kedua yaitu, saya merasa dengan menggunakan inst...

LIST OF MY FAVORITE SONG APRIL 2019 As mentioned in the previous post, I will tell you all of my favorite songs for this month, and I bet you will like it too. Well, my kind of favorite songs changed after I graduated from college. So before, I was so crazy about EDM kind of songs but now I’d love to hear alternative/ indie pop songs or hip hop rap songs. Those songs that I’ve been written below always playing day and night on my phone. I’d never been bored with it! So here are some list of my favorite songs currently, check it out! 1.           The Japanese House – Follow My Girl 2.           The Japanese House – Maybe You’re The Reason 3.           The Japanese House – Face Like Thunder 4.           The Japanese House – f a r a w a y 5.       ...